Folks, I am experiencing the consequences of the high cost of International Shipping as well. People just don't seem to understand that once the package is out of my hands and in the hands of the shipper, there is nothing I can do.
I normally ship USPS International Priority Mail which is $16.95 to Australia. This service does not have tracking or insurance. It is supposed to take 6 to 10 business days to get there, but I have had it take as long as 4 weeks. Customers complain, of course, but there is a slight tinge of blame on me in their complaint. They always ask for tracking information and even proof that I sent the order!
I am currently talking to a customer in NZ in this predicament. My alternative is to then ship International Express mail for $41.50 to get tracking and 3 to 5 days delivery. I believe that is what shippers like MikesXS have been forced to do.
I have never had a Priority Mail shipment lost. I have, however, experienced very long delays of up to 6 weeks for the shipment that is supposed to take 6 to 10 days.
I personally think that this uncertainty in international delivery time is an anti terrorist effort.