Don't use a torque wrench on your spark plugs. I'm inclined to use a little less than the recommended torque on the old threads on these bikes, anyway.
To tighten a spark plug, hold the ratchet handle real near the socket, so that the handle part is effectively real short. That makes it hard to over-torque. And has been said, just snug it down. Doesn't need to be tight. I hate those crush washers; the first time they crush they feel like the head is stripping. Yuck!