I thought my start button had 2 wires, but I could be mistaken..
All you need to test this is a multimeter. You should have one already if youre wiring your bike. Go grab a cheap one @ Walmart or radioshack etc...Like 10-20 bucks.
Take the multimeter, set it to OHMS. This will tell you the resistance between 2 points. When your 2 points are connected properly, it will show 0.00 resistance. When they are not connected- it should show OL.
Youre going to use it to see if your frame or handlebars are "connected" to the start wire when you press it in.. Connect 1 lead to your start button OUT, & the other to the frame.. When the start button is pressed- you should see 0 resistance.
If so, this means your starter button is sending out a ground signal when pressed.. You would connect this OUTPUT to the blue/wht thin wire thats on the starter relay. The thin RED/wht wire right next to it would get connected to an IGN source. The 2 heavy terminals on the starter relay are going to go BATTERY IN & STARTER OUT.
When the relay is energized by getting BOTH + & - signals on the THIN wires, its going to connect those 2 heavy battery cables together turning over your starter.
So, relays can work either way- They just need to be energized- its up to you to decide what type of signal youre are going to send, a negative or a positive. Whatever you do, the other wire needs to be hooked up to the opposite..
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The only reason I want to say my bike had 2 wires for the starter is because I recall alot of the wiring diagrams showing using the starter button as a POSITIVE circuit. I know mine is hooked up thru a negative circuit that Im fairly certain I did on purpose- it could have gone either way.