Nothing worse than a stripped spark plug thread. Say, isn't this a thread about another thread.
There's no reason to have this happen. To much torque will do it for sure. I suspect another reason is cross threading. If someone first starts the plug using a socket or spark plug wrench, there is no "feel" whether its cross threaded. When it gets stuck, they may then put the beef to it and really strip the thread.
I like to use my fingers to turn the plug in. I used to use a little "Never sieze", but found that it makes it difficult to "feel" if the thread is turning freely. Now, I never use "Never sieze" (no pun intended). I make sure the threads are clean, and turn the plug almost fully in using my fingers. No chance of cross threading that way. I use 14 ft-lbs torque, and yes I use a torque wrench every time.