Same here (12 I think?). Real name is James. Everyone in the small town of 750 called me Jim. My card says Jim E Dent.When I was 10 I went to the post office to get a Social Security card because I got a job with a paycheck at the newspaper. I went by myself and signed up using my name everyone called me, not my given name....Tommy. It has followed me since that day on my card.