So i replaced the starter bendix with mikes kit and for some odd reason its still spinning through. I followed the direction exactly and all the washers, nuts, etc. when exactly where they came from. I also remembered to relocate the spring clip just as the directions said. Maybe its not sitting in tight enough so I can always add a washer or something before the final "C" clip or maybe the starter gear spring is not applying enough tension to keep the starter gear engaged.