bill, block your rear wheel with a broomstick or something against the frame tubes, and use a breaker bar and an appropriately large socket to go counterclockwise. Keep the flat-sided lock washer ass you'll need that. If the nut is not torqued to spec on assembly, your seal may leak.
On the alternator removal, only do so if you must. Use a puller designed for this, available from MikesXS.com, and save yourself a lot of grief. The nut goes CCW as well. I use a tow strap wrapped around the alternator and fixed to the frame to keep the engine from rotating. I would not recommend using your transmission for this.
TC