Yes, down sizing and reducing is the easiest answer.There's still some more I need to loosen my grip on and make go away.
I'm there with ya
Yes, down sizing and reducing is the easiest answer.There's still some more I need to loosen my grip on and make go away.
I know what you mean. Sometimes I'll stand over the garbage can for 10 min or more.... piece of junk in hand... break into a cold sweat.... and eventually return said junk to it's original place...but to REALLY clean up would make me a nervous wreck. Far too many times that I've been able to fix something or make something because "I've got just the thing..." Most of the time, I even know where it is!
It`s much clearer now. I don`t have any "Junk". I have "Stuff" consisting of everything. Tools, hobbies, hand me downs, collections, treasures, artifacts, novelties, left over materials, unfinished projects etc but "No Junk". Well almost none with the exception of the kitchen junk drawer. The treasures in there are of the greatest and priceless sentimental value and can not be measured in dollars and cents.
My wife wasn’t innocent. She has her own version of junk/stuff. We were both paralyzed by it. For us, hiring someone with the gift was the answer. I’m thinking about turning my motorcycle rally tee shirts into a quilt. I may have a tee shirt for every day of the year. And some other collections that were supposed to be worthwhile.See, now THAT is clear, logical man-think! Why is it so hard for wimmen to grasp?
I think before the move from WA to OK the wife and I took a little over 3000lbs of stuff to the dump. Old couches we didn't want to move, general trash, stuff that was "useable" but bad enough to not donate, etc. And that doesn't count projects I sold/gave away or stuff I took to the scrap scales. And even with that after the move its amazing how much junk you still drag along.
I had a 3,000+ sg ft house. We had four kids. We accumulated lots of stuff. Add to the sq ft, lots of unfinished basement space and attic space. Fast forward several years, it's just me plus wife. We moved into a 1,700 sq ft house we thought would be forever. Once again, plenty of basement and attic to hide junk. After 10 years, I find myself starting a new career with another move. We end up with 2,400 sq ft 4 BR 3 BA house, no attic, no basement. While waiting for construction to finish, we rented an 800 sq ft cabin on a farm. Perfect! We learned right then that we don't need more. So, we moved into the new house and all the crap is underfoot. We were both unhappy. So, now it's cleaned up. A mountain of junk is gone. I narrowed myself down to tools, my Yamaha pile, and I kept the vintage music plus a few keepsakes that my kids claim they'll want to inherit. We're now able to enjoy the house in a growing community and we're hoping for continued $$ appreciation. So, when I call it quits, we are seriously thinking about 600-800 sq ft. At that time, a lot more stuff will go away. We've also been entertaining getting rid of everything that doesn't fit in two suitcases and moving abroad. It could prove an exciting option for us.I’m guessing most of you guys are a bit more “experienced” than I am...
What do you guys consider “downsizing” in terms of living space and “junk”... are you guys leaving 3-4000+ sqf houses and barns packed full of things that haven’t seen the light of day in years???
Now, just keep after your health, so you can spend at least 30 years doing whatever it is you want to do! Let’s ride motorcycles!We have a nice 2700 SF. 4-bdr 2-story house w. a fairly decent sized garage on about 0.25 acres in the city. My wife enjoys gardening and I am fine with cutting the grass etc. The big issue with the house is the two-stories and it is getting old having my personal space in the basement. It is comfortable enough - but the constant up & down stairs is a drag. As for the total space, we just don't use that much so we are likely going to go to about 15-1800 SF. on one level with a basement.
Some friends are saying, "Oh but what about when the kids come to visit?" Well, if it is just one of our three daughters and her mob, we will easily have room for them and if the whole fam-damily wants to come, we will do what my folks did when they down-sized: call the local Comfort Inn, Best Western etc. and rent three sets of rooms for a couple of days. That never cost my Mom more than $5-600 per time - and doing that once or twice/year, costs far less than maintaining and paying the taxes on a huge house that you only use a small part of. Besides, our kids and their cousins all loved bouncing around together in the hotel and there was always a pool for extra fun.
The bigger issue is that our neighbours on one side are total idiots. They are a grumpy and rude older couple who don't look after their home, but they have two 30-something lay-about sons who are worthless jerks - very loud and thoughtless - and I am fed-up.
I want to have an 1800 SF. bungalow on couple of acres so that I am far enough away from anyone that I don't care what they are doing/cooking/arguing about etc. I also want a shop - with heat and A/C so that I can play with my toys and not be tripping all over things every 10 minutes. I'd say about 30'x40' should do nicely.
I have a very complex and demanding job - and my whole career has been meetings, presentations and papers - conferences, lectures, books, files, etc. etc. and I am tired of that too so I want to down-size the files and swap over to working with my hands. I want to get up in the morning and do what I want to do - not what some committee mandates for me. I'd much rather get an old snowblower running than go buy a new one - sort of Mustie1 style. I'll be retiring in August, so I am off-loading stuff and tasks onto younger colleagues or just ditching them - and so the end is nigh....
Is that too much to ask?