I advocate a system of survival based on knowledge and situational awareness. Can't stop a freight train by standing in the tracks, arms outstretched in a "halt" gesture. Gotta figure out how this works.
Like Mailman, I too had a serious life challenge 18 years ago. Working in the corporate environment, signed on for the insurance options.
Then, it hit. Diagnosed with stage 3 cancer, pretty bad. Doctors/hospital conferred with my medical insurance reps. Yep, pretty bad, lets just make him comfortable.
Paperwork shuffling, notifications to various parties, preparations for hospice, perhaps later when the symptoms become intolerable.
Suddenly there was a panicky flurry of activity. Seems that my life insurance folks got wind of this, and weren't going to sit by and watch a $1 million claim spill out.
I was hospitalized the next day...