no, i didn't touch the inside of the valve guide at all. And you shouldn't.
And you shouldn't clean the section of the valve that sits in the guide either - any kind of abrasive cleaning will screw with the tolerances. Basically, where it's carboned up, clean that, but don't touch any other part of it.
Yeah, i've got the valve compressor from Mike's. Does a fine job. I also picked up a set of dowel stands from Princess Auto for $10 - made things a lot easier with the head level and elevated while i was compressing the valves, and trying to fit the keepers in. And yeah, they're a bit of a pain in the ass until you get the trick of them. Basically, i compress the spring until i can just fit one side in, then try the other one. I might have to go another turn before it will drop in, then release the tension, watching them (hopefully) pop into place. I've found that if you compress too far, they tend to slide down too far, and yuo have to magnet them back out again to try again. Then tap the stem tip of the valve a couple of times with a plastic faced hammer to make sure they're seated.
One other thing: your outer springs are variable rate - ie: the coils that are closer should be on the bottom against the head. I almost always forget until i look at the head and realize i've put one in upside down.